Honoring the True Heroes: Support for Orphans and Widows of the Iron Swords War at the Museum of Tolerance Jerusalem
July 23, 2025
In a moving gathering filled with both sorrow and resilience, nearly 600 widows and orphans of the Iron Swords War filled the Museum of Tolerance Jerusalem with a powerful sense of community and hope. Under the banner “The True Heroes of the War,” and through the dedicated leadership of Shai Graucher and the organization Together We Will Win, these families were embraced with everything they needed for the new school year—school supplies, warm meals, entertainment, and most importantly, compassion.
From the moment the doors opened, the Museum came alive with energy and warmth. The halls were filled with the joyful sounds of music permeating every corner, setting a festive tone. Children eagerly lined up for face painting, their faces transformed into colorful butterflies and tigers, while the aroma of hot dogs from food stands added a comforting, familiar touch. A magician entertained youngsters and adults alike, weaving moments of wonder and laughter into a day that balanced grief with celebration.
Among the crowd, President Isaac Herzog made a personal visit to meet the youngsters and their families, offering words of encouragement and reaffirming a solemn promise: they are not forgotten. In this lively setting, laughter mingled with tears—children found moments of pure joy, while mothers wiped away tears of both grief and gratitude. The Museum became a sanctuary where pain was met with warmth, and sorrow softened by human connection.
Graucher, who has been deeply involved in supporting these families since the war began, reflected on the uniqueness and ongoing nature of their needs, “We have been helping many, but the needs of the orphans and widows are something very special—and continuous. It’s not going to end. Just recently, my wife accompanied an orphan born two weeks ago to his first event here at the Museum. His father was killed in Lebanon; she went through childbirth without her husband. Anyone who is a parent can understand the profound weight of that.”
The event brought together widows and orphans from all sectors of Israeli society—IDF soldiers’ families, Shabak, Mossad, police, and civilians alike. One poignant example shared was of a family tragically impacted by the Iran attack, in which a grandfather, father, and brother were all lost.
Graucher emphasized the holistic nature of their support, “While the government provides crucial aid and no one is suffering for food, our role is to bring love and happiness, to nourish the soul and ease the pain as much as we can. This is true chesed—acts of real kindness beyond writing a check.”
Thanks to generous donors Leonardo and Bettina Farkas, who provided essential school supplies, and MOTJ's Chairman of the Board, Larry A. Mizel, who made the Museum space available, the day was more than a distribution of material goods—it was a heartfelt embrace.
The Museum’s halls, a place dedicated to tolerance and remembrance, became a space where grieving families found dignity and care.
For the mothers attending, the event alleviated the overwhelming burden of preparing for a new school year on their own. Graucher described the challenge many face: hours spent navigating stores that often lack the exact items their children need. Here, everything was provided, removing that stress and allowing families to focus on healing.
This gathering was a testament to resilience and solidarity, honoring not only those who serve but the families whose lives have been irrevocably changed. The Museum of Tolerance Jerusalem proudly partners in this ongoing mission—reminding us all that behind every loss lies a story of courage, and behind every tear, a community ready to embrace.
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